The Ultimate Sex Doll Guide (2021)

If your knowledge about sex dolls comes from the 1980s comedies, you might be surprised by how realistic they look in 2021. There’s not much resemblance between the newest, ultra-realistic sex doll models that you can currently find on Siliconwives.com.

Nowadays, high-quality sex dolls have almost life-like features, are soft to the touch, but that’s not all - they can also moan, change their facial expressions, and sex with them is amazing. However, if you start reading about sex dolls, you might quickly be overwhelmed with the number of different aspects you need to consider before buying one. 

What are the best sex doll companies, how do you assemble a sex doll, and should you buy silicone or TPE dolls - so many questions and so little answers. Thankfully, you don’t have to endeavor on this journey alone - we’ll be glad to help! 

In this guide, you’ll find information that will make every step of the buying process of a sex doll a little easier. We’ll also share our tips on how to ensure that your sex doll brings you happiness for the longest time. Let’s go!

What Is a Sex Doll?

If you are reading this guide, then lets be honest there’s a 99.99% chance you know what a sex doll is, but just to make sure that we are on the same page: a sex doll is a type of a sex toy, usually in the shape of a person, that is meant to provide sexual satisfaction to her or his owner. 

In most cases, sex dolls are relatively realistic, though those who are looking for sex dolls that look like characters from their favorite movies, games, or books, will be delighted to find out that such models are available as well! Sex dolls are made from a great number of materials, such as TPE, silicone, latex, or vinyl.

Why People Buy Sex Dolls? 

Fetishes

One of the primary reasons people buy sex dolls is that they can cater to all types of fetishes, including acrotomophilia, which is sexual arousal toward amputees, which is why not all sex dolls consist of a corpus with legs, arms, and hands. However, it doesn’t matter if you enjoy dressing up your sexual partners in 19th-century dresses, want to feel less lonely during your stay in a cabin in the woods, or are just incredible horny, and cannot find anyone who would match your libido - ultra realistic sex dolls will come in handy on any of those occasions. 

No Time For Dating

It might be that you are spending a lot of time on your work or studies, and there’s simply not enough time for dating. Sure, the dating apps make this process a little bit more convenient, but after a long day at work the idea of going on a date and trying to get to know the other person might be overly ambitious. 

What if there was someone who would wait in your apartment, ready to engage in any sexual act that you could think of, and with absolutely no judgment? Seems almost too good to be true, but it doesn’t have to be if you decide to buy a high-quality sex doll. This way, you wouldn’t have to waste your energy on fruitless pursuits. 

Living On Your Own

Or, it might be that it’s not your lack of time that’s preventing you from having sexual interactions with human partners, but rather, it’s due to the circumstances. If you are trying to recharge the batteries in Northern Canada or any other region far away from any sign of civilization, you still might get horny. 

Unfortunately, there aren’t many clubs in the wilderness, if any, which means that you’ll have to find alternative methods of satisfying your sexual thirst. Not even the internet can help you, as speeds in such places are usually abysmalwhich means that you won’t be able to enhance your sexual fantasies using pornography. However, there won’t be anything stopping you from seeking solace in the arms of a female sex doll.

Practise Your Technique

If you don’t have much sexual experience, you might be feeling stressed that you won’t be able to please your partner. We aren’t born with the knowledge of how to make great sex - we have to learn that through experience. Unfortunately, the fear of not being good enough could stop you from engaging in sexual acts, thus making the situation extra tricky. To deal with this situation, you could buy a sex doll and start practising sex without having to worry that the other side will judge you in any way.

Lastly, some people buy sex dolls because they have made a conscious decision that they don’t want to engage in relationships with humans, either temporarily or permanently. It might be that after several unsuccessful encounters, they became disillusioned with the modern dating scene, and they might see it as a pointless endeavor. 

Or, they might have just gotten out of a relationship and aren’t ready for anything serious, in which case sexual interactions with a high-quality sex doll would be a safer bet from an emotional perspective.

However, it doesn’t matter why you are interested in buying a sex doll - if you want one, there’s no need to stress over what other people will think. Admittedly, the attitudes toward sex dolls aren’t yet the same as toward less sophisticated sex toys, such as vibrators, or dildos. 

Still, it hasn’t been that long since love dolls became this realistic, which means that most people are simply unaware that the newest models aren’t in any way like cheap blow-up dolls. The materials from which they are built, the technology, and their life-like features make them excellent sexual partners capable of making all of your fantasies come true.

Do Women Also Buy Sex Dolls?

Even though there is no point in arguing that usually, it is men who buy sex dolls, they aren’t by any means the only ones who appreciate the benefits of having a love doll by their side instead of e.g., a vibrator or another sex toy. When we think of sex doll owners, we usually picture men instead of women, and to some extent, it has a basis in reality, as women usually prefer more subtle methods of satisfying their sexual desires.

However, attitudes toward sex are changing, and it also applies to love dolls. Women get lonely just as men do, and they likewise often lack time to date anyone, in which case they have to rely on alternative methods to get themselves off, and a simple sex toy, such as a dildo, might not be enough. 

That’s why on virtually all major reseller websites, you can find the “male sex dolls” section where you can find models with muscles that look like they have been carved out of stone, and if you are into women, then you can choose from among an even greater selection of cuties of all shapes and sizes. If you decide to go with the former, remember to check the size of the model’s penis, as some male sex dolls have penises that are a tad large, which could make the sex uncomfortable.

Where Can I Buy a Sex Doll From a Trustworthy Site?

If you think that a high-quality sex doll would make your life more interesting, easier, or happier, you should check out our fantastic range of love dolls that we have to offer.  

Of course there are a number of sex doll vendors available, but we think our discreet packaging, fast delivery, wide range of dolls for all tastes and great customer service make Silicon Wives stand out as the No. 1 option for Luxury Sex Dolls.

If you still want to check out the competition beforehand, then we advise that you consider all the options each site has to offer. There is a long list of the authorized resellers, so knowing which is the best for you can take lots of time and research. There are different benefits to each site, so just find the one that you trust, provides the best service, and also has the doll of your dreams.

How to Avoid Scam Sex Doll Websites

Even though you can find a lot of reliable sex doll manufacturers out there, there are also those who are offering subpar services. We are not talking about companies with long shipping time or prices that certainly could be a little bit lower. Instead, there are sex doll websites where you’ll find beautiful-looking photos of dolls, however, what you’ll receive if you decide to order from them will be a far cry from what is shown on the photos. 

Apart from their physical features, sex dolls from scam websites won’t last as long, as they are made of worse quality materials to save costs during the manufacturing process.

Any attempts to contact their customer service will prove fruitless, and to make matters worse, their address is most likely fake. 

Is there perhaps a way to check if a particular sex doll website is legit, or if they are trying to scam their customers? There are several factors that you should consider:

• Is the company behind the website claiming to be the manufacturer of sex dolls? It is easy to check that with just a little bit of googling. The dolls made by a single manufacturer, e.g. 6YE, can be found on websites of dozens of authorized resellers. However, if the website that you are visiting does not provide the information that they are just reselling the dolls, we recommend checking if the same image isn’t used on any other pages. If you use Google Chrome, simply right click on it, and choose “Search Google for image.”
• Scam websites often use too-good-to-be-true prices to lure visitors into buying their products. It also applies to sex dolls; if you aren’t sure if a particular company is legit due to their suspiciously low prices, then we recommend staying away from it altogether and choosing a better-known one instead. However, you could always check how much you would have to pay for the same doll on their competitors’ websites - if the difference is pretty significant, it is probably a scam.
• The best way to check whether the website in question is trustworthy is to contact their customer service. If they are a trustworthy business, they will know a lot about the dolls, as it is their area of expertise. Remember: you don’t have to buy any dolls from them to ask some questions. If they respond in a timely manner, there are no holes in their knowledge about dolls, and if they are willing to give you their phone number, then most likely they are a reliable company.
• Additionally, if you want to go the extra mile, you could check the opinions of other customers about their dolls online, though we would like to warn you that some of the reviews you are going to encounter might be paid off, or written by the employees of this company. However, if a great majority of reviews of the dolls are negative, then it is a clear sign that you shouldn’t send them your money. 

Things to Consider Before Buying a Sex Doll

Although avoiding fake sex doll websites is essential, even if you visit a website of an authorized reseller, you’ll be just a tiny bit closer to your goal. That’s because sex dolls come in all shapes, sizes, skin colors, but that’s not all. You will also have to choose the material used to construct your sex dolls - TPE, silicone, latex, or maybe vinyl, and whether you want to upgrade them with additional moaning or internal heating systems. Let’s quickly go over these.

Shapes

Let’s be honest: when you first visit a website of a sex doll company, your gaze will most likely fall on models with skewed proportions, to put it delicately. It is true that most models have bigger-than-average breasts and, at the same time, are particularly thin, but it doesn’t mean that all of them are like this. 

Remember, sex dolls are meant to fulfill sexual fantasies, and our tastes differ, sometimes quite greatly. That’s why some models are petite, whereas others could be described as BBW. Thick or thin, tall, or short, with small or gravity-defying breasts - you can find all of those on the market!

Weight

When buying a sex doll, we recommend checking the size of your model, as later on, you’ll have to carry her and change her positions. If she is too heavy for you, you could easily injure yourself, and it is pleasure, not pain that you should seek, that is, unless you are into BDSM, in which case it is still probably not the type of pain that you are after. 

Though it depends on the type of material and the skeleton, dolls usually weigh about a little more than half of what a real person with the same dimensions would weigh.

Skin Color

If you have ever dreamed of traveling around the world and meeting beautiful women in different countries, we’ve got good news for you - you don’t have to go anywhere! You can choose from among sex dolls of all human skin tones, but also less-realistic ones, like blue or green if you are into fantasy women.

Internal Heating System

The newest models can have stunning facial features that will make your heart skip a beat, but there is one problem: their body temperature is nowhere near that of a real human being. It means that if you take your doll out of the closet, you’ll have to warm her up first before you can proceed to the exciting part. 

It is usually done using an electric blanket, though it means that you’ll have to be patient. That’s why most of the newer models of sex dolls have an internal heating system that can help prepare your sexual partner in no time.

Moaning System

Though we’ll have to wait some time, hopefully no longer than a decade, before doll models are capable of spontaneously reacting to our actions, currently, there is another way to spice up your sexual experience with your cuties. Thanks to a moaning system, you’ll be motivated to quicken your pace, though unfortunately, you might not last long.

Materials

If you are looking for a model that would match your expectations, the material from which the sex doll is made should be one of the first factors that you consider. Unsurprisingly, sex dolls made from quality materials, such as TPE or silicone, are typically more expensive than those made from e.g., latex. 

It’s not only about how realistic your sex doll will look - the choice of material is far more consequential than that. Let’s take a closer look at the two most commonly used ones - silicone and TPE.

TPE Sex Dolls

TPE (Thermoplastic elastomer) is manufactured from plastic and rubber, which makes it elastic but also easy to produce. Because of that, TPE sex dolls are a cheaper option, though that’s not the end of their advantages over silicone ones. Thanks to the TPE material, they are also softer to touch and their breasts and buttocks wobble naturally.

TPE sex dolls need to be cleaned after each sexual act, though even if you take great care of them, they might lose their visual appeal over time. Unfortunately, due to their porous skin, which makes them more realistic to the touch, TPE sex dolls are prone to staining and susceptible to mold growth.

That’s why after cleaning it’s important to remember to dry them off thoroughly, or the water remaining in their pores might spell doom for your love affair with a sex doll. To clean the TPE material, you should use luke-warm water, as it could get damaged when subjected to temperatures higher than 104* Fahrenheit.

Silicone Sex Dolls

Silicone is a thermoset, which means that sex dolls made from this material aren’t as soft to touch, and there is no characteristic wobble, but at the same time, their maintenance is much more convenient. Unlike TPE, this material is non-porous, which means that silicone sex dolls are resistant to stains, though they are a little bit less realistic as well. 

If your doll requires cleaning, you can safely put her into a bathtub, though make sure not to submerge the head, as it would ruin her make-up. 

The manufacturing process is more complicated, as the shape of a silicone doll cannot be altered multiple times using heat, as is the case with TPE. Because of that, silicone sex dolls are typically more costly than TPE ones. On the other hand, silicone is a more durable material, which means that your doll is unlikely to get damaged even after many nights filled with passion.

Both TPE and silicone dolls can be a little sticky, in which case we recommend applying baby powder. If you haven’t owned a love doll before, you should first consider how much money you are willing to spend on your sex doll. Silicone dolls are more costly than TPE models, but they will serve you for longer, and their maintenance is much easier. 

On the other hand, if you want your sex doll to look as realistic as possible, and be extremely soft to touch, with breasts and buttocks that feel virtually like real, a TPE doll might be a better choice.

How to Unbox and Assemble Your Sex Doll?

Once you’ve ordered a sex doll from your dreams off the website of an authorized reseller of your choice, your waiting time could vary from just a few days to several weeks. It largely depends on whether you choose one of the already assembled dolls that are presented on the website or if you want to customize every part of their body. 

Let’s skip forward to the day on which the package arrives at your doorstep. It is customary for the packages to be completely anonymous, so you don’t have to worry that a delivery guy or your neighbors will judge you.

Now, as we’ve previously mentioned, sex dolls usually weigh around half of what an adult of similar stature would, which means that depending on your tastes, the entire package could weigh up to 90 pounds. You wouldn’t want to drop the package on the ground, risking damaging your soon-to-be lover, or even worse - injuring yourself. 

That’s why we recommend asking the delivery guy to help you carry the package to your home for a tip. You could always ask one of your neighbors to do that instead, but they would surely ask you some questions later, which most likely you would like to avoid.

When the package is safely transported to your house, grab a box cutter, and carefully cut the tape, so as not to risk damaging your love doll.

Once you open the package, you might be surprised that your doll is… headless! However, don’t worry; her head will rest between her legs. Take the head out of the bag, and place it on the floor. 

Then, check what other items are inside the package. There will be a wig and clothes, but depending on a manufacturer, you might find there also brushes or a hook for easy storage of your doll. Make sure that all those things are not placed right next to the package, as now you’ll have to get the doll out of it, and given its weight, you wouldn’t want to have to carry her for a long distance. 

Once you are ready, proceed to remove the protective foam from the love doll using scissors, and once again, try not to damage your sex companion in the process. 

Then, take the sex doll out of the package, though don’t rush - you don’t want to drop her if you grab her awkwardly. Once you’ve placed her on the floor, attach the head to the rest of the body, and then, install a wig. Voila! Your sex doll is now fully assembled!

Can You Have a Vaginal, Oral, and Anal Sex With a Doll?

Now that your sex doll is here, you might be wondering which sex acts are you free to engage in. We’ve got good news; there’s almost no difference between sex with a love doll and a human, which means that you can engage in vaginal, anal, and oral sex.

You should check whether it is the case with your sex doll, but most models have removable cavities, which makes cleaning them much easier. And, to answer your next question: yes, you can cum inside your sex doll. 

Now, during a love-making session, you might discover that sex with a love doll is relatively dry, which isn’t that surprising, as her vagina won’t self-lubricate. In this situation, we recommend using a water-based lubricant, though try not to use too much - remember that you’ll have to clean the sex doll later on. 

How to Clean a Sex Doll

When it comes to maintenance, you should clean your doll after each love-making session and more thoroughly once every few weeks. Let’s say that after a night full of passion with a sex doll, you’ve finished in her vagina. Use tepid soapy water to get rid of semen and other body fluids.

Next, flush out any remaining soap from the vaginal cavity. Before you apply powder, make sure that there is no moisture left. The process of cleaning your doll is much easier if your model has a removable vagina. If you’ve finished inside the anal or oral cavity, just follow the same steps to ensure that your sex doll is clean.

However, even if you clean vaginal, oral, and anal cavities after each sexual act, it is not enough. Your sweat, oil residue, or stains can affect the aesthetic value of your sex doll, though that’s not all - they can also make the sexual intercourses unhygienic. That’s why once every few weeks you should clean the entire doll. 

Both silicone and TPE dolls can be washed in a bathtub, assuming that you don’t submerge the head. However, TPE dolls react badly to high temperatures, and hot water could easily deform them, which is why you should stick to the cold water. Silicone sex dolls, on the other hand, are resistant to high temperatures, which means that you can bathe them in hot water without having to worry about the potential damage. 

Use sponge and soap to get rid of the oil residue, dirt particles, and stains from the body, whereas while cleaning the face, use a soft cloth. Once the bath time is over, dry the sex doll off using towels. It is especially important in the case of TPE dolls, as moisture could ruin your lover easily. 

You might be tempted to use a hairdryer, but if you don’t want to risk damaging her, we wouldn’t recommend that, even if you own a silicone doll. Only once your sex doll is completely dry, you can apply the powder to her body. If you want to learn more about the cleaning process, you can check our guide on how to clean a sex doll.

How to Store Your Sex Doll?

Most sex dolls come with storage kits, which means that you won’t have to worry about what you should do with your doll while you are not using her. Such storage boxes can be hidden under the bed, in the corner of your room, or anywhere. Make sure that the place where you put the box doesn’t get occasionally very hot or cold, or you might risk damaging your doll. 

Although such boxes are a discreet way to store your sex doll, there are alternative methods as well. Depending on a manufacturer, your doll might come with a hanging hook, which can be used to store your doll e.g., in a wardrobe. 

Accessorize Your Sex Doll

You won’t ever forget the moment when you open the package and see the angelic face of a sex doll for the first time. However, after numerous nights filled with joy, you might start wondering what could be even better than a life-like sex doll, and we’ve got the answer: two, or more life-like sex dolls! 

Unfortunately, sex dolls aren’t particularly cheap. Sure, on some websites you’ll find the option to pay in installments, but still, it’s a huge investment. However, you don’t necessarily need to buy a new doll - instead, you could accessorize her, changing your experience completely.

Head

Although it might seem a little weird at first, buying several heads is the simplest way to make your experiences with sex dolls more varied. Sure, you probably have an idea of the perfect facial features, but some variation hasn’t hurt anyone.

Body

Alternatively, you could do the exact opposite - instead of switching heads, you could invest in several sex doll bodies and then choose them based on your current mood and preferences. Unfortunately, it would be much more expensive than buying a couple of doll heads.

Wigs

Wigs are a pretty inexpensive way to change the look of your doll. Are you into blondes, redheads, brunettes, or maybe you think that there is nothing sexier than pink hair? You don’t need to choose - just buy wigs in different colors and make your dreams come true.

Make-up

Although the sex doll will come with make-up, doll users are free to make their faces even more alluring. If you don’t want to face problems later on when cleaning your sex doll, we recommend using primarily mineral-based make-up products.

Clothes

When it comes to the subject of clothes and sex dolls, the opinions of doll owners are varied. Some doll-lovers think that clothes are completely unnecessary, as they hide the beauty of their sex companions. 

On the other hand, there are also those who put a lot of effort into making sure that their sex doll looks absolutely stunning, dressing her with great attention to detail. If you belong to the latter group, make sure to check the dimensions of your love doll before you go on a shopping spree. If your sex doll hasn’t yet arrived, you can easily check such information on the website of resellers or manufacturers.

Conclusion

If you’ve reached this point, there’s a good chance you’re keen to get yourself a sex doll, so we hope you’re now armed with all the knowledge for picking the best option for your needs. Although sex dolls can be a source of great happiness in your life, the process of buying one is a little bit more complicated than if you were to buy, a chair for example.

If you would like to take a look at realistic and high quality dolls, then just click here. If you have any questions at all about our products, delivery, or any other part of our service, then just let us know and we will respond as soon as possible!